Thursday, 13 February 2020

MORNING SUN | Valentine's


Evening all, the recent stormy weather has got me missing the gorgeous winter sun we had last week and I just had to show you one of the valentines looks I came up with because I bloody love it. The subtlety of the rose bud print with the dusty rose of my vintage blazer oh my god I'm swooning over my own wardrobe. How seasonally appropriate.

Thursday, 6 February 2020


The other day I asked a question over on my Instagram stories which got a MASSIVE response. I asked, what comment or "compliment" my followers had received but did not at all appreciate. I gave the example of the fact that I received a DM request in reply to a previous story "smile lol" - Which quite frankly angered me more than maybe out should... However, I believe you should never tell anybody to "smile". It's in the same linguistic category as saying "cheer up love" as far as I'm concerned at its not okay for SO many reasons.

You may be aware that I studied Linguistics at university, so I'd argue that I'm plenty qualified enough to discuss this with authority. I apologise if I'm coming across as a bit angry but it's because I am. "Smile" and "cheer up love" are often said to women, by complete strangers, usually men, and I will never cheer up or smile for the sake of a man. I will never alter my self or my sense of self for anyone, especially a stranger.

I have known my entire life that I have complete control over my own emotions and that all emotions are entirely valid and beautiful. I'll pout and frown and cry if I want to. If that makes you uncomfortable, if you'd be more comfortable with a false smile, then I'm truly sorry, but you really shouldn't be bothered.

To put it quite simply, don't tell me to smile.


Friday, 31 January 2020


I need to stop shopping.... That's not news. Problem is I've been flicking through clothing catalogues and scrolling through the new in section on clothing websites my entire life. I love clothes. My problem now is that I have money... So, often I buy them, especially, if more often than not, they are in the sale.


I did a Topshop order of some things I thought we're beautiful, honestly thinking that they wouldn't fit me at all and I'd end up returning them. That did not happen, they look equally beautiful on me as they did on the model. I am obviously happy about this in the sense that I have some gorgeous new clothes, though I didn't need them, they were an absolute steal from the sale. This corduroy playsuit is obviously one of them. And it is beautiful, as you can see. 

Something I need to do is realise when I am truly going to get my money's worth out of a garment and the time and wear out of it and I know that this is something that will last a great amount of time. I love corduroy and I love dressing like an overgrown toddler. My justification may be weak but I can assure you there is truth in it. This will last. 

I'm quite obviously being rather contrary, call me Mary, by training about how I'll be shopping less but showing off what I've bought... However, it's a process I'm sure I'll get there. I will be shopping far less and have already been. I also want to just focus on other things as well as my love for dressing up, again, a process and I'll get there. 

What are you working on bettering in yourself? I'm asking mostly out of blatant curiosity but also as a source of inspiration and comfort. 


Thursday, 9 January 2020


In a bid to encourage a more sustainable and ethical attitude towards shopping and styling for myself and as many others as possible I am starting a hashtag over in my Instagram account. This might me an absolute TOOL (to put it politely) but I do think it will at the very least,work for myself and hopefully hold me accountable for the way I shop and wear my clothes.

So, if you can't tell by the title of this blog post,the hashtag is #ohsothriftystyle and will only appear in the captions of my Instagram posts (and on stories) when my outfit is not brand new. I'm letting myself use it for things I've had in my wardrobe for ages, charity shop purchases, clothes swap deals , vintage pieces and the occasional item I might have borrowed from my sister/mum/Finn/friends etc. Hence, thrifty. 

The definition of 'thrifty' is 'using resources carefully and not wastefully', which is quite frankly how we should all be styling ourselves AND shopping. Be thrifty kids. 

If anyone fancies joining in with me, I'd love to see all of your #ohsothriftystyle posts over on the gram and I will be sharing my favourite outfits to my story as frequently as humanly possible. 

The first of my outfits is the one featured in this post obviously... The skirt is just a H&M purchase so not took  but the t-shirt is one of my absolute favourite thrifty pieces. It's an Alexa Chung tee I bought from @mollycatherineosborne in Instagram and I lurveeeeee it. Cardigan is borrowed from ma sœur, and I just paired it all with an old pair of H&M boots and my Calzedonia tights, v happy with this look.

I feel like this post could have been more succinct but OH WELL, this is how I'm starting my 2020, with a bloody hashtag woo. I actually can't wait to share all the outfits I've been thinking up, and I hope you share some too.



Tuesday, 31 December 2019


So 2019 is coming to an end and I'd be lying if I said I had any sort of commentary on the past year at all. I definitely don't want to talk about politics or world affairs because quite frankly we all know I'm a massive hippie lefty vegan so I'm sure you can quite accurately guess my opinion on things such as the recent election result...

What I would like to talk about is myself because that's all I really know. Firstly, I feel like I've been asleep for at least 50% of the past year including all the time that I was awake. I've been really missing university and education in general which to be honest was of no surprise and will be rectified in the new year... That's quite exciting.

My depression hasn't got any worse which is nice. It's sort of stayed at a very similar level for the past year which makes it a bit easier to cope with I guess. I'm still the same person I was at the start of the year but I seem to have developed a weird ethereal view of myself and everything I do. It's like my mind and body are more separate than ever and I am really enjoying the distance.

I have also learnt a lot about being a grown up and about adult friendships recently. There seems to be a weird unspoken thing that some people are just bitches? And that you have to just deal with it? I'm almost certain there is another solution other than dealing with it but it's working quite well for me.

I've also learnt that some people just really like drama and will do anything to create and then maintain their dramatic existence. This is not something I intend to be a part of. It's not a terrible thing though,and doesn't mean these people are terrible people either, I'm just completely uninterested by it all.

I've been very lucky this year however, to make some really wonderful friends who I know I'll be close to as long as I live and it makes me so happy. As you grow up you're told that making friends as an adult is difficult but I honestly don't think it has to be and it hasn't been difficult for me. If I've liked someone and thought "yeah I'd like to hang out with them" then I've pursued that- simple as. And I'm bloody glad that that's my attitude.

Sad things happened this year, as they always do, and we coped and we carry on coping. Some things happen and will be eternally sad and that's ok, no one expects you to be content 24/7 and you shouldn't be. Some things are sad and yet you moved on, and that's ok too, as long as you are surrounded by love I think you'll be fine- whether you're happy or sad.

2019. Wow. When did I grow up? Here's to still accidentally writing the date as 2012...


Saturday, 30 November 2019

THE RAMS HEAD DISLEY| pub & vegan menu review*

Last night, I was kindly invited to the media preview evening of The Rams Head in Disley. They've had a complete refurb of the entire pub and the menu and it was so wonderful.

As we arrived, as the first guests there, we were pointed in the direction of the bar and the “gin pimping” station. The one thing I regret from the evening is not making the most of the amazing variety of things I could put in my g+t. I kept it pretty simple with blueberries and rose petals and it was rather lovely.


Thursday, 21 November 2019

DIPSYS HAT| everyday outfit post

Let's get back to basics babes. This blog started an embarrassingly long time ago, I would borrow my mom's tripod, set it up in my bedroom and take self-timer photos of my outfit and then they'd end up on here. 

Nowadays my content is slightly more curated which I love but sometimes I have an outfit on just anyway and convince Finn to take a couple of pics... and I realised, more often than not, they only make it as far as instagram. So, I'm going to make more of an effort to pop them on here too, with just a little run-down of what I'm wearing and why I like it. We'll call it the everday outfit post, shall we?


So, obviously, this post is titled and somewhat in honour of Dipsy from the Teletubbies and his hat. You can hear him sing about it here, and I can honestly say I am equally as overjoyed with my own hat. I'd also feel very dishonest if I didn't tell you that my best friend Molly also got this hat and we match and look ridiculous but I love it.

Everything else about this outfit I completely adore too, aside from the fact that this skirt is way too short on me and will be heading over to my depop to find a better home. I don't think it looks too short in these photos but I can assure you it is anything but practical for my day-to-day life.... clearly I've got some searching to do for the perfect blue denim a-line mini.

Let me know what you think of this look, I've been told it's rather eccentric and whimsy which I think is completely fair but I also do just love it.


Wednesday, 6 November 2019


Well hey there friends, it's been a hot minute since I posted on the blog and I honestly don't have an excuse because I've just been too busy. Believe it or not, I've had a bunch of ideas and things I want to talk about so I'm going to just start at the top of my list and work my way through, top of my list is sustainability.... bit of a hot topic now,[ right?

So, the linguist in me has to start here: Sustainability is a noun, meaning 'the ability to be maintained at a certain rate or level', meeting the needs of a person without compromising others needs to be met now or in the future. At the moment there is a lot of chat about shopping sustainably and obviously, that is a great thing, but there seems to be a small number of people online who are really doing their bit whilst being mean about people who aren't? Very specifically, in regards to sustainable fashion. I've seen people share things online, calling out brands for 'not trying' enough, calling out influencers for not trying enough or not talking about it enough. And you know what's not sustainable? THAT. 

So maybe I've had a bee in my bonnet about this for a little while but please bear with me. You may or may not know that I work in retail, I work in retail because I needed a job (I have two jobs, fyi) and that's the same for a lot of people. I work for a company I personally believe are so much better than other high street retailers, and who I do think could try a little harder to be sustainable and environmentally sound because I think all big corporations could, but who are trying nonetheless. When people target these brands with comments about how awful they are, they make the employees feel like shit too.

Wednesday, 9 October 2019


So, I lived in Amsterdam briefly as a child and though I don’t remember much of it, what I do remember I’m fond of and have wanted to go back as an adult for the longest time. Me and Finn spent the last week of September there, as our first holiday just the two of us and for Finn’s 25th birthday- it couldn’t have been more wonderful. 


I have never felt so at home in a city (that wasn’t already my home, luv u always manchester) as I did in Amsterdam. There was a feeling, a sense of immediate belonging and contentment. It was the most wonderful holiday of my life and I have never been so gutted to go home. 

I don’t want to go into too much detail about the holiday because that would take a long while and I don’t think it would be very interesting to read... 

I would like to highlight however that I had a particularly incredible time in the Van Gogh museum. Van Gogh has always been my favourite artist and always will be. I wish I could’ve spent all day in there, on my own, just looking and thinking and crying and looking, on my own but with Finn. 

Anyway, if you can’t tell, I LOVED AMSTERDAM. 

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